How To Teach Somebody

You cannot teach someone by protecting them from pain because they would do anything to escape it.    You can only teach them by providing them with pleasure because they will voluntarily follow it and will want more of it.

Love

You cannot spread love and be stingy with it at the same time.

Love and Respect

By default, other people deserve love and care but they can lose it depending on how they behave. By default, people do not deserve respect but they can earn it depending on how they behave.