Learning Effortlessly: How to Let Your Intuition Teach You

I have recently discovered the book The Inner Game of Tennis. It contains some very interesting ideas on the nature of learning that go far beyond tennis. I have added some of my own experiences to it to make it more practical: Do not consciously self-correct your mistakes. The behavior you focus on will not…

Making Progress In Life: In this Process We Trust

Progress is something we must do on a consistent basis. Otherwise, nothing will ever change. Everything we do on a consistent basis is called a habit, meaning something we do automatically without questioning it. In order to build a habit, it must contain three important components according to The Power of Habit. A trigger, an action and…

The Highs and the Lows: The Painful Road of Progress

When we start to work on ourselves we discover things that are very easy to solve and things that are extremely difficult. The more difficult they are the more of our emotional buttons we will press. When we are successful we get high, we can do anything! We are in flow and nothing can stop…

Honesty: What Could Be More Selfish?

I always tell the truth. Telling the truth is very selfish and I always put myself first. Lying means to try managing other people’s beliefs and expectations while manipulating them to do what you want. This way you stop looking inside and therefore you cannot grow. Telling the truth means managing your own expectations and…

A Great Life

Do not waste your time on good things. The difference between a bad life and good life is small. The difference between a good life and a great life is huge. Do the things that make your life great and not the things that make it good. Never forget: You can look back at a…

Desire

Desire is love and does not need an outcome.  Wanting is fear and cannot live without an outcome.  If you can desire without wanting you are free to have everything.

Access

The most important thing in life is access. Nobody wants money, we want the things money allows us to access. Nobody wants the perfect partner, we want the emotions that a partner gives us access to. Everybody has a maze inside that is blocking our access so that we crave external things. Our true nature…

The Zone Of Power: Your Mind​s Must Shift Because They Don’t Play Well

“You can’t suffer your way to success.” – Jesse Elder “…And you can’t enjoy yourself on the way either.” So, where does this lead us? What about suffering, grinding and banging our heads against the wall? Is this not success? Nope. When you have to work really hard every day and you feel miserable inside, you…

Your Life’s Purpose: Properly Implementing Your Goals

Have you ever tried to lose weight, stop smoking or stop eating junk food …. and failed? We tend to make these goals and then expect our discipline and willpower to take care of it. What we don’t consider is this: Why do we really want to reach that goal and what do we need…

Removing Emotional Addictions: The Barriers Of Success

“This one is gonna go on and on…until we get smart or we get lucky. He won’t stop.” – “Why not?” “Because it makes him God. Would you give that up?” Red Dragon (2002) Have you ever noticed that some of the things you do are easier to plan and execute than others? Why do…

Balancing The Sociopath And The Empath

In life, everything has two extremes. Darkness and light. Up and down. Warm and cold. It’s the yin and the yang. The black and the white. This symbol shows how both sides are in perfect symmetry, not within themselves but with each other. Together they form a whole. The full circle. There’s one more thing,…

How To Overcome Obstacles Without Wasting All Your Energy

“The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.” Marcus Aurelius in Meditations We all face obstacles whenever we try to achieve anything, that’s just life. The universe has this cruel irony: It gives us an intense desire for something, puts it right in front of our feet and then throws the…